Broken
What To Do When We’re Broken

It is only human to become despondent when we have failed in keeping to our moral, ethical and spiritual standards, succumbing, instead, to temptation. Our Orthodox Faith teaches that we must be compassionate towards others, loving, quick to forgive, exemplar in our Christian living, and always demonstrating to the world that we belong to Christ. Yet we also know we fail, most of the time, in living up to the standards of the Gospels, appearing no different than the pagans.

We look to the example of the saints, and wonder why we seem so far removed from their Christ-like example of living the Gospels. Over and over, we sink in the muck and mire of sin, becoming broken, downtrodden, and sick. In our brokenness we betray the Gospels, our own standards of behavior, and the expectations of others. We know the truth of the words, “There is none good but One, that is, God (Matthew 19:17),” because we fail, over and over, in our own seeming inability to live as we believe.

We know we have been called to holiness by Christ, and that He gives us the strength, courage, and even the ability, to live our lives out in holiness. Yet, try as we might, we find ourselves utterly failing to live the Gospels, failing in our witness before others, and letting down our friends and family, with behavior that is anything but an example of Gospel living. We are broken, bordering on despair.

Nevertheless, even as we struggle with our sins, we must remember that we were specifically created by God for participation in His Divinity. We have been called by Him, and have become a Royal people, specifically created to participate and share fully in the life of God. The key to this life in God is to be found in repentance. Even in our brokenness, we must not give in to despondency, for our Saviour is quick to forgive. When we have found ourselves falling short of the glory of God, we must turn toward this very God in repentance, knowing that He is quick to forgive.

When we are broken, despair is the enemy, and should be seen as an emotion that has come from the Evil One. Hope and forgiveness are the gifts that come from God. During those times when we have failed in our Christian vocation, we must embrace the hope that comes with a repentant heart, and see, in our brokenness, the reminder that we are to always keep our hearts and minds in the knowledge that we have a God Who is quick to forgive. Despair is the enemy of our salvation, because in despair, the Evil One would have us believe there is no hope, and therefore no salvation. In our brokenness we must turn our gaze towards our Co-Suffering Saviour, the One Who lifts us up, out of our brokenness, making us whole, and granting us forgiveness and life.

Love in Christ,
Abbot Tryphon

RESPONSE

When you find yourself broken, remember that Christ was broken for us. We all fall short of His glory, but He loves us all the same. What Jesus endured during his crucifixion was one of the worst possible torments imaginable. Being whipped, stabbed, adorned with a crown of thorns, suffocating, and ultimately giving up the Ghost, He endured for us.

Life will get you down. You will slip into sin, fall flat on your face, and find yourself at rock bottom. Fear not, weary traveler. For the rock upon which your life is built IS Jesus. Sometimes you must be stripped of all the worldly things in your life and be left beaten and broken. It is there in that place that you will find comfort in our Lord Jesus. Allow Him to come into your life, fill you with His warmth and love, and tend to your brokenness.

Christ WILL make you whole.

Learn from your brokenness. You have to look back at times on those situations and debrief them in your head. What action or scenario caused the break? How did you respond? How could you have handled this situation without triggering the break? Working through these problems and refocusing your eyes on the LORD will see you through. We’re all broken creatures, but our Lord God mends us.

God bless you all.

-Tobinator

Speech: “All the world’s a stage”

BY WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE

(from As You Like It, spoken by Jaques)

All the world’s a stage,

And all the men and women merely players;

They have their exits and their entrances;

And one man in his time plays many parts,

His acts being seven ages. At first the infant,

Mewling and puking in the nurse’s arms;

And then the whining school-boy, with his satchel

And shining morning face, creeping like snail

Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,

Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad

Made to his mistress’ eyebrow. Then a soldier,

Full of strange oaths, and bearded like the pard,

Jealous in honour, sudden and quick in quarrel,

Seeking the bubble reputation

Even in the cannon’s mouth. And then the justice,

In fair round belly with good capon lin’d,

With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,

Full of wise saws and modern instances;

And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts

Into the lean and slipper’d pantaloon,

With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;

His youthful hose, well sav’d, a world too wide

For his shrunk shank; and his big manly voice,

Turning again toward childish treble, pipes

And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,

That ends this strange eventful history,

Is second childishness and mere oblivion;

Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.

RESPONSE:

I took a trip recently with my family to Atlanta, GA. For anyone who has ever been there (or any major city for that matter) you know that there’s one thing you can always count on: TRAFFIC. My daughter (8) and I were looking down out of our hotel window at all of the cars when I proposed a philosophical thought: Every one of those cars down has their own story.

In the digital age we are all put forth center stage, or so we think. From our “40,000ft View” we could literally see how far from the center we really were. EVERYONE you pass on the way to work, in the hallway, or rest beside in the pew has their own story. They have their own journeys. They have their own problems. They have their own triumphs.

We are not alone on our journey. You will find that you have much more in common with your fellow man than you think. Most people want to work to provide for their family, enjoy the fruits of their labor, and live long, happy lives. While there are forces that would hinder that progress, we have a much greater force on our side: The Lord God Almighty.

His single, unifying, all-powerful presence that lives within believers can overcome ALL obstacles. He has a guiding hand in all of our lives and even more so when we accept that Jesus is our Lord and Savior. Let Jesus be the Writer and Director of this play we call life. Follow His lead and the most beautiful performance will commence. One day, you might just meet everyone you saw from the top of that hotel and get to live their life through their own telling. Praising God for all eternity and hearing wondrous stories from all of those people sounds pretty grand to me.

God bless you all.

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